Good Things Take Time

I have written before about how I see clients differently from Patrons. Ordinarily, in order for Me to consider you a Patron, We would have spent a number of visits together, and We could have slowly developed a rapport and a trust that is a deep bonding experience for both the submissive and the Dominant. A level of intimacy can evolve so that while I am Domming you, and you are submitting to Me, We experience a transcendant experience. The type that leaves you breathless and gasping, possibly laughing, shaking, ACHING as your balls empty of your offering for your Mistress, and it feels endless. That kind of connection takes time, and it's rare, and it's what makes you a Patron of Mine, and not just a client. The only way it happens other than over a period of weeks, or months, is when someone with a deep desire to submit commits himself to spending several hours with Me at a time; it gets intense for both of Us, believe Me.

For the first time today, a submissive gave Me the gift of enough time to really explore his limits, his secret longings and really send him deep into 'subspace'. The poor fellow is totally cunt-struck, and with good reason. He was an absolute delight to Me, and I look forward to helping him continue his journey into the world of BDSM....or whatever this is I do.

Very Important Patron

I get a lot of requests that, for various reasons, I turn down. If an email to me says not much more than 'whats ur rate?' I know it's going to be a request for something I don't do. I know that at the least, an email like that is going to expect some uncovered contact. I also know that they don't get that 'all that other shit' is what makes Me worth what I ask for. If all you want is a bareback blowjob, you are really in the wrong place. I don't care if you think I'm just another hooker; I don't think I am just another hooker! I consider myself first and foremost not even a domme, but a courtesan. As a courtesan, many of my Patrons come to me looking for some degree of dominance. I get asked all the time about submitting. I respond curtly and to the point; I do not sub to clients. That being said however, when a Patron is explicit from the beginning about what it is they want, and is willing to take the time to get to know them and let them get to know Me, they might earn special privileges out of mutual fondness & respect, let's say...Let's call them loyalty rewards that are better than ANYTHING you might get with your Airmiles. That's what separates these particular individuals I think of as Patrons in My mind from an ordinary client. There might be things I would do for them I might not do for any other client, and certainly not a first time client!

One such Patron is a special pet who recently earned the very special privilege of a visit from Mistress Erica outside of My domain. We had a lovely evening and some delicous treats. Another special patron is visiting tonight for the first time in some time which is nice, because every once in a little while Mistress Erica needs to take an hour off and let her inner slut out to play. When slut needs to play, there are 3 options. 

1. I can make my needs clear to Partner;

2. Masturbation and fantasy; because it isn't like I don't have the tools; and

3. Hope to hear from a certain Patron, whom I call Maximus Minumus and respect too much to identify otherwise.

He'll be here in just over 90 minutes...and slut is wet already. I have some ideas of what he wants, and it's exactly what I'm craving.  Later this evening, a young pup is going to be delighted to have an incredibly aroused woman teach him how to please Her....

Self-employment is great.

The Rules

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Spanky spank spank

I hate to say it, but sometimes Madonna just nails it; "nothing like a good spanky!".

Spankings are something that I enjoy giving a great deal as a Domme. When I have a brand new patron visit, I like to begin with an over the knee spanking. Ever since My toad gave Me my boots, I always wear them during a spanking. I position Myself in my oak dining room chair that sits alongside My bed. I put them across My knees so I can spank with My right hand (it's stronger). After a good working over with My hand, I like to switch to a paddle so I can spank harder. You see, I bruise quite easily, and if I hit as hard as I like to with My bare hand, I wind up black and blue across My palms and fingers. Not only is it painful, and hard to explain, but it impairs My ability to really set Myself free on the next victim...errr, patron.
I enjoy building the 'layers' of redness, and of discomfort, and when I can hear your soft whimpers, and I know you are giving up your tears, that gives Me pleasure.

Of course, I understand first hand (ha!) the joys of a really good thunderous ass-warming spanking though. Not long before I began this journey into the oldest profession, I made a serious error in judgement in My personal life and I had to confess it to My partner. Part of My repentance was to submit to Him, and I did so gladly. I was told I would need to undress and present myself across His knee. He sat in His leather armchair, and I draped myself across his lap. This was uncharted territory for both of us. He had never spanked me before: I had learned that I craved the sensation of a hard hand on my soft ass from someone else. He spanked me, HARD: He held me braced so I could not move away, and so I was able to relax and enjoy the incredibly intense spanking he administered. When He told me to get upstairs on the bed, I ran! He took the riding crop to My ass, and when I squealed for a safeword, He told me I did not deserve one for my foolishness. I knew then that it had been foolish of me not to trust HIM, and that He knew my limits at least as well as I did. Though it felt as though my ass was being peeled at the time, and I cried and I moaned and I begged him to fuck me and forgive me, He left not a single welt or weal or bruise. As we lay together after, and I felt the delicious langour in my arms and legs, my mind was clear and my thoughts were bright and brilliant. I felt reborn and forgiven. It was glorious.

How do you feel, gentle perverts, after giving or receiving a really good spanking?

Mistress Erica's FAQ Goes Up to Eleven *UPDATED*

Here are some questions I get in email requests. I might as well just spit them out, hmmm?

1. What are your rates? What's the tribute? What's the required donation?
2. I don't want that domme stuff, just good old fashioned sex. Do you provide that?
3. Would you accept...?
4. Do you take Visa/Mastercard?
5. Do you offer bareback/greek (anal)?
6. Will you smother me until I pass out?
7. Do you offer outcall services?
8. I want to make you my sextoy where you submit to me. Interested?
9. Do you like role play?
10. Can I have some free pictures?
11. What are your restrictions/ hard limits?

What are your rates/tribute/donation? UPDATED!! (AGAIN!)

If you are looking for FULL SERVICE domination/girlfriend experience with a release at the end of the hour, you're required to make a $200 cash donation. If you want a full hour without the full service, it's $200.
I don't generally book sessions under an hour: good things take time. If you want more than an hour, add $100/hr. So a three hour session is a really great value, and excellent if you are looking to build a rapport for ongoing sessions.

I don't want that domme stuff, just good old fashioned sex. Do you provide that?

Of course I do; it's called a Girlfriend Experience. If it's your fantasy that I am your old high school teacher, or your Mommy, even your boss, you can change the name if you like and call it roleplay.
  
 Would you accept...$?

Ask the waitress at the bar if she'll take $2 for that beer. Inquire if you can pay $6.50 for that package of cigarettes.
If you have something I am interested in, like silver investment coins or bars, we can discuss barter. If you have PayPal, I can invoice you AHEAD OF TIME. (Yes, really.)

 Do you take Visa/Mastercard?

Yes, actually. You can use credit cards to pay for a service by requesting a PayPal invoice. Once I have a confirmed payment email and I have ensured the payment cannot be canceled, we'll have fun.

Do you offer bareback/greek (anal)?

I don't offer bareback anything. Safety first, kiddos! I offer anal and I enjoy it too, but not without condoms. And lube. Plenty of lube.

Will you smother me until I pass out?

I don't do anything that doesn't fall within the guidelines of SAFE, SANE & CONSENSUAL.  If I am sitting on your face, you might feel as though you are about to pass out, but I REALLY don't want to have to explain to your wife why you died, chained naked to my bed, so don't ask me to. If you are into light breath play, it's negotiable.

Do you offer outcall services?

Not even once.




I want to make you my sextoy where you submit to me. Interested? (UPDATED)



I don't switch. Ever. If you don't want to be dommed, you can still have a Girlfriend/MILF/roleplay experience, as long as it doesn't involve ME submitting to you. It means something serious to me, and it's not something I play with. Anyone who has any real BDSM experience ought to get that. That's a line I don't cross. Don't ask.

Well then, can I spank you?

Ask Me again after you've seen Me once or twice.

 Do you like role play?

That ought to be obvious by now, shouldn't it? I have plenty of ideas and scenarios; props and costumes required? If you like spankings and you have an Implement of Choice, bring it or buy it for Me...I'm pretty open-minded and  unshockable. I also have a large walk-in closet for all of my darling secret CDs out there.

Can I have some free pictures?

Undoubtedly, if you know where to look.

What are your restrictions/hard limits?

• no minors, no animals, no scat, no blood, no bareback, no outcalls
• you don't get to cum in My mouth or on My face
• you do not get to dominate Me
• no alcohol is permitted at My location without My knowledge
• minimum appointment is 60 minutes