What Mistress Needs...

Hello Lovelies!

As you know, it takes work to look good for all of my clients: gentlemen, sissies, and Mommy's boys alike. It also takes regular infusions of cash, believe Me! I'm asking my darlings to dig deep and shower Me in goodies...If I don't look and feel good, I can't possibly either keep you in your place or fulfill your most sensual desires..

It's true: I no longer exclusively provide domme services. In fact, more often than not lately, what my visitors enjoy is best classified as being somewhere between a GirlFriend Experience and a Pornstar Experience, in 'hobby' terms. I still don't see anyone for less than an hour, and I prefer appointments of 90 minutes or more.  I also like to prebook with clients whenever I can, but I no longer accept bookings longer than 120 minutes for clients I do not know. I still play safe and everything is sane and consensual. I still insist that my visitors treat me with respect and dignity, and for some of them, it borders on reverence. I understand that whether it's Dominance or "Full Service", my clients return to me because of the way I make them feel when they are in my little paradise. I don't like one-timers: I like repeaters! I like being able to build rapport, to really learn which buttons to push, how to make you happiest (even if that means treating you poorly...)

I admit; I have had client requests, both domme and otherwise, that I have turned down. I am particular, but don't you think that's a good thing? I have too much self-respect to book everyone that calls or emails. If you can't be bothered to send an email that's more than a sentence long, you're not likely going to enjoy having to read My ads. They're descriptive: guys that get Me, seem to like that. Most of the gentlemen who see me semi-regularly are a delight and a pleasure, and generous to a fault!

Want to feel generous? Erica needs some financial assistance from loyal fans & subjects....

1. Haircut and colour                                                             $150
2. Advertising budget for 1 month                                      $120
3. Facial and full body massage                                            $100
4. New shoes                                                                            $80
5. Spa manicure                                                                       $60
6. Lingerie                                                                                $50

Any and all contributions will be acknowledged here and on My website with photos and captions! You know My email, don't you darlings?

xox

Erica

What if....? (A Fantasy Roleplay Scenario)

Sexy curvy redhead MILF will reward you handsomely for a brand new iPod* in package! read the online classified ad. That's it, that's all it said. You found yourself intrigued. Something about the description tickled your fancy. You imagined how those three adjectives and that one noun might all stack up. Reward? That seems like an interesting way to put it, doesn't it? And there isn't a price on the ad either...and what do you suppose that could mean?

When you email, you get a phone number to call. The voice on the other end is rich and mellow; low and sexy, sultry. It's the voice of a woman who loves belting out classic rock tunes rolling down the highway in a 70s muscle car...and you're still more fascinated.

When She greets you, you are met with the sight of a body built for Sin...soft curves where a woman should curve. Hips a man can hold onto. Creamy cleavage and just a tiny hint of a black lace bra...skirt maybe just a little too short, slightly too tight, but that just shows more full thighs and surprisingly long legs. She holds back the door for you, and as you enter, you brush against her ripe rounded ass. Wordlessly, she takes your hand and leads you up a long staircase into a cool, softly lit and comfortable bedroom...and she takes the iPod from your hand, guides your hand to one ripe breast and presses her beautifully lipsticked mouth to yours...


*http://store.apple.com/ca/ipod/family/ipod-nano is the one I am looking for. If you wish to play out this 2.5 hour fantasy roleplay session, please send Me a message through My website to discuss terms.

His Instructions to the slut

 will arrive around 8:30.

You will, of course, be squeaky clean.

You will have a butt plug inserted where butt plugs are meant to go.  You will use nothing but your own spit to get it into place.  No artificial smells or tastes are wanted around your ass.  

You will have your five favorite toys lined up on the floor.  One of them must be an instrument to strike you with if you displease.

You will have a candle burning or ready to be lit.

You will have a joint ready for me and I may share if you have done everything else correctly.

Is that all clear?

It promised to be an interesting night.

From the Mailbag

Mistress loves boys (and GIRLS!) with manners. Imagine how delighted I am to receive emails like this from a submissive!

Mistress Erica

A look at my ass confirms what i felt throughout our session
a Mistress who knows how to wield her implements

i had a lot of fun with You
you are so open and friendly

love Your body and i must say
you certainly know how to use it for the benefit of both including your slave for the day

i am glad that i passed your test and am able to returnwhich no doubt i will

It's like a poem, isn't it? I made quite a work of art of his ass. With no need to worry about leaving marks, I went to town. After several swats with My hand, I quickly realised that this spanking was going to be epic. I used my PingPong paddle, I used Mr. Spanky the paddle with leather on one face and faux fur on the other. After thoroughly warming his ass with both of those until it was dark red, I moved on to some beautiful purple welts, courtesy of My purple riding crop. The finishing touch of his thorough ass warming though, was My leather flogger. I could still see the marks an hour later; I am certain he is still admiring them now. He will thinking of Me for some time, at least when he sits down.

Revealed: Search Words (Edited: Now with SISSYFUCKING!)

Interesting thing I found on Blogger Dashboard: I can search and see what keywords people are using to find My blog. Of course, if you have replied to My ad, you have likely received an email from Me that has a link to this very site. However, if you are someone I have met in passing, and I have mentioned to you what it is I do, then maybe you have used the name of the blog in your search bar. Or perhaps it's random chance that you have been searching for a Mistress and come across Me (No pun intended...) that way. In any case, here are the keyword searches that have led some of you here. Strung together, they remind Me of the poetry that b.l. ronan writes.

Finding Erica
a domme blog erica
can a domme tell when you're reading Her blog
24/7 Mistress
convert me into a sissy slut
bruise on my palm spanking
musings of a mistress
miss erica femdom ads
black domme
what does sissyfucking mean?
sugar lips blowjob


(I like the incongruity of the last line, by the way!)

Good Things Take Time

I have written before about how I see clients differently from Patrons. Ordinarily, in order for Me to consider you a Patron, We would have spent a number of visits together, and We could have slowly developed a rapport and a trust that is a deep bonding experience for both the submissive and the Dominant. A level of intimacy can evolve so that while I am Domming you, and you are submitting to Me, We experience a transcendant experience. The type that leaves you breathless and gasping, possibly laughing, shaking, ACHING as your balls empty of your offering for your Mistress, and it feels endless. That kind of connection takes time, and it's rare, and it's what makes you a Patron of Mine, and not just a client. The only way it happens other than over a period of weeks, or months, is when someone with a deep desire to submit commits himself to spending several hours with Me at a time; it gets intense for both of Us, believe Me.

For the first time today, a submissive gave Me the gift of enough time to really explore his limits, his secret longings and really send him deep into 'subspace'. The poor fellow is totally cunt-struck, and with good reason. He was an absolute delight to Me, and I look forward to helping him continue his journey into the world of BDSM....or whatever this is I do.

Very Important Patron

I get a lot of requests that, for various reasons, I turn down. If an email to me says not much more than 'whats ur rate?' I know it's going to be a request for something I don't do. I know that at the least, an email like that is going to expect some uncovered contact. I also know that they don't get that 'all that other shit' is what makes Me worth what I ask for. If all you want is a bareback blowjob, you are really in the wrong place. I don't care if you think I'm just another hooker; I don't think I am just another hooker! I consider myself first and foremost not even a domme, but a courtesan. As a courtesan, many of my Patrons come to me looking for some degree of dominance. I get asked all the time about submitting. I respond curtly and to the point; I do not sub to clients. That being said however, when a Patron is explicit from the beginning about what it is they want, and is willing to take the time to get to know them and let them get to know Me, they might earn special privileges out of mutual fondness & respect, let's say...Let's call them loyalty rewards that are better than ANYTHING you might get with your Airmiles. That's what separates these particular individuals I think of as Patrons in My mind from an ordinary client. There might be things I would do for them I might not do for any other client, and certainly not a first time client!

One such Patron is a special pet who recently earned the very special privilege of a visit from Mistress Erica outside of My domain. We had a lovely evening and some delicous treats. Another special patron is visiting tonight for the first time in some time which is nice, because every once in a little while Mistress Erica needs to take an hour off and let her inner slut out to play. When slut needs to play, there are 3 options. 

1. I can make my needs clear to Partner;

2. Masturbation and fantasy; because it isn't like I don't have the tools; and

3. Hope to hear from a certain Patron, whom I call Maximus Minumus and respect too much to identify otherwise.

He'll be here in just over 90 minutes...and slut is wet already. I have some ideas of what he wants, and it's exactly what I'm craving.  Later this evening, a young pup is going to be delighted to have an incredibly aroused woman teach him how to please Her....

Self-employment is great.

Sissyfuck

As the line between my ordinary, superficial vanilla life and my life as Mistress Eric becomes ever blurrier, and as I evolve as a Dominant, I'm looking a little deeper at some of the things that really turn Me on, as well as what my patrons need from Me. After all, I am supposed to be providing SERVICE to them. At the same time though, I don't do this merely out of financial necessity. I do it because I like it: I charge for it because a) I can and b) it's part of the turn-on for me, quite frankly. It makes Me feel empowered. So the things I do are the things I like, and My most satisfying encounters are always when the patron and I like a lot of the same things! That brings me to the topic of the day: sissyfucking.

How do I define a sissyfuck? If I were to sissyfuck you, it would begin something like this...

you lie on your back before Me. you are restrained by leather cuffs at your ankles and your wrists. I have tethered your wrists to My bed, and your ankles are linked by a long piece of chain. You are helpless and aroused before Me, and your pleasure is an incidental thing that matters to Me not at all...

I push your knees back and up until your heels are practically over your hips, and My slender fingers brush against your silky stockings on the inside of your thighs where the lace topped band is. I am oh so careful to avoid touching you anywhere but where I want you to respond. As I press in closer to you,  I reach for what I need to give you what you want. You can hear My gloves snap and you know what will soon come next.

Then one fingertip is teasing your hole, just like I teased you by sliding just the tip of your pathetic dick across the front of My magnificent pussy...My finger is slick, wet, and insistent. I want to be inside you completely. I want to hear you moan for Me and mean it. I know you can take a second finger easily, and you do. So wet and soft and hot, and you are completely mine as I stroke deep inside you. It's not enough though, for either of us. I have to fuck you properly now.

The Feeldoe is heavy and thick, and it will fill us both. It will fill Me so that I can fill you, and as I slide my silicone cock deep into your sissy hole, and you moan, I will own you. When I tell you to fuck yourself on My cock like the slut you are, you do, and your moans sound like music. And when I cum, it will be fierce and explosive, and all the better for Me because it simply isn't your turn yet...

What do You like, Mistress?

As I lay nestled against him, the toad asked Me that question.

What are Your fetishes, Mistress? What do You like?

It was easy to ponder the question without thinking too much about it. After all, I had already cum at least twice. It really doesn't take much for a favourite submissive to help Me orgasm hard. The toad has been well-trained, and licks right where he is supposed to. It's his toady dick that gets him into trouble when he lets it do the thinking for him....

So. Let's see. What do I like?

I like long slow kisses, with bites, sucks, licks and nibbles. I like coaxing just a little bit more from my subs than they think they can take. I like the sharp intake of breath My teeth cause when I sink them into your earlobes, the slightly alarmed moan as you feel my questing fingertip teasing that hole of yours...

Oh, those holes...Mistress likes to play with her submissive sissy slut holes. My hands are small and strong; My fingers are slender and long. I like the expressions of helplessness on a sub's face as I am perched between his knees while he lies on his back like a bitch...waiting to be stroked deep inside. I love to feel you opening at My urging so you can take Me into yourself...I enjoy teasing and tormenting you verbally while I am stroking you gently, or not so gently, with both My hands at once.

And now, I feel the need to stroke something...gently, then not so gently, and then barely at all....